The boyhood home of the groom, William Gelder Shepardson. from History of Macoupin County Illinois: And Biographical Sketches of Some of its Prominent Men and Pioneers, accessed via Google Books |
Among the Carlinville newspapers I found on the Old Fulton
Post Cards website was a wedding announcement for my great grand aunt, Mary J.
Bosomworth, also known as “Mollie”, who was the sister of my great grandmother,
Anna Belle Bosomworth Marlow. She had married William Gelder Shepardson, who
was the adopted son of Thomas S. Gelder, one of the early settlers of the area.
Thomas Gelder, who was originally from Yorkshire, was a veteran of the Black
Hawk War, during which he fought alongside Abraham Lincoln. (The Gelder
homestead is depicted above). The wedding was held at the home of my great
great grandparents, Charles and Ann Bosomworth on January 13, 1881, in
Chesterfield, Illinois, according to the February 3, 1881 Carlinville Free Democrat. What is interesting about the article,
is not only the detail it gives about the wedding, but also that it includes a
list of most of the wedding gifts, and who gave them! I don’t think I have ever
seen this included in a marriage announcement before. It may be a whole or
partial list of the guests, but may also be a way of acknowledging people who
sent gifts but who did not attend. Here is a transcript. I have added the
relationship of the giver listed to the bride or groom where not explicit:
A Tony Wedding
Quite a number of guests
assembled at the residence of Chas. Bosomworth Thursday eve., Jan. 13th to
witness the marriage of his daughter Miss Mollie to Mr. W. G. Shepardson, Rev.
March officiating. After the impressive ceremony was performed supper was
served which was complete in every respect. The following is nearly a complete
list of the presents received:
Pair of scissors, father of
the bride.
Two brooms, mother of the
bride.
Set of napkins, Allie
Bosomworth. [Alice, sister of the
bride].
Set of plates, Irene
Bosomworth. [Sister of the bride].
Glass water pitcher, T.
Shearburn. [Likely groom’s sister’s husband’s brother, Thomas A. Shearburn].
Set of goblets, Mrs. T.
Shearburn. [Wife of groom’s sister’s husband’s brother].
Pair of vases, Mary
Bosomworth. [Likely cousin of bride,
Mary Jane Bosomworth, daughter of George Robert Bosomworth, and born same year
as the bride].
Pair of towels and coffee
mill, Mr. and Mrs. N¬__.
Set of knives and forks,
John Allen.
Lamp, Mr. and Mrs. T.
Towse.
Set of napkins, Mr. and
Mrs. S. L. Berryman.
Set of goblets, Enola
Peebles.
The set, John Candler and
Ida Towse. [John Candler was the likely the brother of the bride’s aunt, Sarah
Candler Bosomworth].
Comb case, Annie
Bosomworth. [Anna Belle Bosomworth, sister of the bride, and my great
grandmother].
Lamp, John and Lucy Forth.
Washboard, R. D. Smith.
Goblets, John Bramley.
Pair of salt stands, Mr.
and Mrs. H. L. De__.
Castor set, Chas. Forth.
Butter dish and water
pitcher, H. Stamm.
Box of matches, Jessie
Bosomworth. [Sister of the bride].
Syrup pitcher, W. D.
Forbes. Tin cup, Edgar N__.
Pair of towels, Mr. and
Mrs. Birdsall.
Butter dish, Low. Thornton.
Towels, Lizzie Boatman.
Glass watcher pitcher, Jas.
Candler [James Candler was the likely the brother of the bride’s aunt, Sarah
Candler Bosomworth].
Two pickle dishes, Carrie
Ulster.
Pickle dish, Annie Cook.
Broom, Lizzie Armstrong.
Silver butter knife, Eliza
___ckels.
Table linens and towels,
Dr. Collins, pref. _____, Fred and Frank Towse.
Wash tub, John Armstrong.
I suppose it would be
natural considering all of the above, to
wonder if the title of the piece is ironic. After all, the wedding was in the
home of the local blacksmith, and the bride’s parents give the couple a pair of
scissors and two brooms. What struck me as I did a bit more research, is that
the groom’s adopted family does not seem to be represented well among the
givers of gifts. Thomas Gelder seems to have been a well-to-do and prominent
citizen of the county, and was still living at the time of the marriage. It is not clear if William Gelder Shepardson
benefitted financially in any way due to his connection with his adopted
father. William went on to make a business out of digging wells. I have yet to
find any further information on his biological father, George Shepardson, or
his mother. The only thing I know about them is that George was from England,
and William’s mother was Irish.
William and Mollie had at
least five children: Piercy Dickenson
(named for Mollie’s uncle), Mary Louise, Charles Bosomworth (named for Mollie’s
father), Edith, and Nellie Gladys. Mollie died in 1943, and William died in
1946.
I would be interested if
any of my gentle readers can identify any of the other guests, and their
relationship to the family if known. The Towse family figures into the Joseph
Marlow story later, as he rents a Towse family farm.
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